Much of our pain and problems come from a need to control. We want to control the future. We want to control our friends, coworkers, and family. We are sure if they just did things our way they would be happier.
At the core of it, what we hate is what we define as evil. We think whatever it is that we are against is wrong. Fear is a lot of this. Fear comes from a lack of knowledge.
What one person sees as harmful is often not a problem for another person. We try to stop them because we want to protect them. We do it out of love, we think. However, this is antagonistic behavior, at the core. We think we are fighting evil. But don’t fight it. That is what it wants. Love it instead by learning about it. Study it to learn why you hate it, for starters.