Anger for a change

Perhaps “anger” is related to grief. Therapists tell us that anger is one of the stages of grief – but perhaps anger itself can teach us about grief.   Perhaps anger points to a sense of loss, of not-right-ness.  Perhaps knowing that can help us notice those situations that need attention.  I think anger is the opposite of complacency.   I think anger can be used as a force to change situations that are wrong.

The Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. was angry.  He was angry that people were being treated badly simply because of the color of their skin.  His anger helped lead a movement of nonviolent resistance that fostered change.   If he hadn’t been angry, he would have simply accepted things the way they were and let them be.  People might still be separate and not equal under the law.  Jesus too got angry at all the hypocrisy he saw – about how the letter of the law was being followed but not the spirit.

Maybe it is a good idea to get in touch with your anger.  Maybe anger is a useful tool.  Maybe I should stop being embarrassed by my anger and just start naming it for what it is.  And then I should learn how to focus it and direct it so it can be used as a force for change.


About betsybeadhead

Hello, and Welcome. My name is Betsy, and I like beads and prayers. Fortunately those two things are more related than I ever realized. You are invited to “like” my Facebook page titled “Betsy Beadhead” and thus see what I’m talking about in my posts when I try to explain something using beads rather than words. This whole thing started because of that. Then I couldn't figure out how to post pictures so I just started writing. I string together words the same way I string together beads, and both serve the same purpose. I work at a library, surrounded by ideas brushing up against each other. I draw, paint, and collage. I study world religions. In all these experiences I like combining different things and making new things, and stretching my understanding of what “is” and what “has to be.” You are welcome to share my posts - just please give credit where credit is due. I'm anti-censorship but I'm also anti-plagiarism.
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