The way to achieve your New Year’s resolution is to achieve equilibrium. If you give something up, you have to take something on. If you simply stop doing a bad habit, all you’ll do is think about it if you don’t replace it with a good habit.

One year I gave up smoking pot for Lent, only to drink alcohol every day instead.   Then, when I gave up smoking pot completely, I started smoking clove cigarettes instead.  The solution was to learn what I was trying to avoid and learn how to face it, and to start nourishing my creative side through art and writing.

Likewise, if you start doing something that is good for you, you have to stop doing something else to make room for it. You only have so much money, time, and energy.  Be sure that what you give up is something you need to give up.  You can’t cut out sleep or food or work.  These are not negotiable.

When I decided to commit to writing at least one blog post a day, I had to spend less time on social media. I learned that deciding to eat lunch at work rather than going out every day meant I ate better, saved money, and had more time to walk, read, or work on writing projects.

Another thing to remember about resolutions is to pace yourself. Remember the phrase “Rome wasn’t built in a day”?  Neither are good habits and life changes.  Do a little bit every day towards your goal and you’ll get there.  Have patience with yourself and the process, but keep moving in the right direction.  Look at everything you are doing – does it support your goal? Then do it.  If it doesn’t, then don’t.


About betsybeadhead

Hello, and Welcome. My name is Betsy, and I like beads and prayers. Fortunately those two things are more related than I ever realized. You are invited to “like” my Facebook page titled “Betsy Beadhead” and thus see what I’m talking about in my posts when I try to explain something using beads rather than words. This whole thing started because of that. Then I couldn't figure out how to post pictures so I just started writing. I string together words the same way I string together beads, and both serve the same purpose. I work at a library, surrounded by ideas brushing up against each other. I draw, paint, and collage. I study world religions. In all these experiences I like combining different things and making new things, and stretching my understanding of what “is” and what “has to be.” You are welcome to share my posts - just please give credit where credit is due. I'm anti-censorship but I'm also anti-plagiarism.
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